1) The current landscape (why due diligence matters)

"Best of" roundups show a wide spread of models—from volume-based firms to niche boutiques—so your due diligence should focus on fit, personalization, and search scope, not brand hype alone. Coverage across business and lifestyle press shows strong demand at the high end—proof that many daters are seeking quality and discretion over quantity.

2) 12 must-have criteria

Personalization depth & low client-to-matchmaker ratio (predictor of success).
Transparent search scope (local vs. national/global).
Vetting rigor (ID checks, interviews, references).
Coaching integration (mindset, communication, feedback).
Clear milestones & reporting (intro cadence, feedback).
Candidate pipeline transparency (where candidates come from).
Privacy & discretion policy in writing.
Conflict-of-interest handling (who gets priority).
Data handling & security for profiles and feedback.
Realistic expectations (no outcome guarantees).
Proven track record (testimonials, case studies).
Aligned budget/tier based on your criteria and timeline (see pricing guide).

3) 6 red flags

Pushy guarantees of marriage within fixed timelines
Vague or inflated "success rates" without methodology
No clarity on where candidates come from
High fees with minimal coaching or feedback loop
One-size-fits-all terms; no scope detail
Little to no privacy documentation

4) What a realistic success path looks like

Boutique services that invest in iterative feedback and coach-assisted refinement tend to create stronger matches over time.

5) How Matchmakers Elite stacks up

Boutique ratios → dedicated attention
Vetted network + proactive search across markets
Private, curated introductions and white-glove coordination
Coaching built-in to every engagement
Transparent milestones from intake to exclusive matching

6) FAQs

Do you work with busy executives and public figures? Yes—privacy is built into our model.
Can I pause my search? We accommodate life events; pausing terms are discussed in onboarding.
What if I'm dating in multiple cities? Choose a program with multi-market or global scope.

12 Things to Look for in a Matchmaking Company (and 6 Red Flags)